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JERUSALEM -- The calamity that struck Georgette Tarazi, tearing her from her husband and forcing a wrenching choice among family bonds, came in a polite form letter from a man she never met.
The Nov. 14 notice from the Interior Ministry's regional director began "Dear Sir or Madam" and ended with cordial regards. It told the East Jerusalem Arab schoolteacher that her application to register her children as residents had been turned down.
Then came the epilogue: "For your information, you have also ceased to be a resident of the country."
Soon came word that her Gaza-born husband, jeweler William Tarazi, would no longer be receiving three-month extensions of his permit to live with her in their walk-up apartment near the Old City's Damascus Gate. On Feb. 23, refusing to live here illegally, William Tarazi packed a battered brown suitcase and returned to Gaza.
In videotape shot that morning, the couple's 10-year-old daughter Lorena wept as she sat on her father's lap. "Children are supposed to be able to be with their parents," she cried.
Since then, William Tarazi has missed his son George Antoine's first birthday on March 5 and the Easter holiday celebrated by his Christian Orthodox family April 27.
Georgette Tarazi, 39, can bring her children to their father at any time -- but the moment she reaches the Erez Crossing to Gaza, the soldiers there will take her Jerusalem identity card and she will not be able to return. That would leave no one to take care of her elderly mother, who has a bad heart. It would tear Lorena from the St. Demetri school and dump her in Gaza's far more restrictive world of conservative Islam. And it would relinquish Tarazi's claim to live in the city where generations of her family were born.
"The whole idea is a one-way valve," said Yuval Ginbar of the Israeli human rights group B'tselem. "You want to go out, no problem. You want to come back, sorry. Other forms of deportation allow you to see the violence. This is a sort of bureaucratic violence."
Tarazi's problems began when she married her husband in 1984 and moved briefly to live with him in Gaza. At the time, before the Palestinian uprising and the Persian Gulf War, Arabs could travel without permits between here and there.
By 1987, despising the Gaza life, Tarazi persuaded her husband to move back to Jerusalem with her. She taught part-time at her daughter`s Christian school, and he sold gold jewelry and later musical CDs.
Nine years later, in a letter mailed to her Jerusalem home, the Interior Ministry notified Tarazi that its records showed she was still living in Gaza and therefore had no right to a Jerusalem ID.
Tarazi has no right, either, to a hearing, even though another government agency found two months later that Tarazi is "a resident of Israel."
May 5 1997 - The Washington Post
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